Sooo...an older teen agonising over whether to choose between her hunky childhood friend and reliable but boring saviour is bad romance, but a 100+ year old man grooming a highschooler into an emotional abusive relationship is totally okay?
Really my main problem with Twilight is that it's just so badly written. I tried to get through it but gave up because it's just so awful it's practically unreadable. And let's not even get into its rather dubious lessons, such as domestic violence being positive, black people disappearing and women being useless in general. Also if I remember correctly, doesn't the main werewolf end up marrying a 5 year old? Eesh.
If we're talking about vampire books I really recommend Let The Right One in by John Ajvide Lindqvist. It got made into a Swedish film (which is also very good), then 3 years later for God-knows what reason received an American remake (which I haven't seen, so can't judge). It's basically the story of the friendship that grows between a young boy with a horrible life and the child vampire who moves in next door. It's achingly sad and bittersweet, but it's such a good read and you really do feel for both the protagonists. Go check it out!
(The following rant should not be read if one thinks the discussion about Twilight is irrelevant)
Hunger games is not primarely a romance novel. It has a good plot and story which could easily stand alone with few revisions without the romantic tension and
triangles. It is also written for older teens. Twilight is primarely a romance novel. It is written for young teenage girls. Fiction for young teenage girls is very rarely good literature by the standards of other kinds of literature, what I'm trying to say is that compared to some other things it's not that bad.
Now, on to your arguments.
-A 100+ years old man... The age issue is a human thing that exists because humans deteriorate over time. Stories in which one of the parties is immortal make the point irrelevant. Love doesn't actually care about age.
-Grooming into an emotionally abusive relationship... Wow, the emotions thing. I think you're talking about the second book here. That's not actually an abusive relationship, it's him trying to protect her and not realizing how much it hurts her. I know it sounds tacky, again: young, teenage girls' literature. There is no ill will in the relationship. Any "emotional abuse" is built on misunderstandings. Once they both decide to be together it's just a good relationship built on mutual love.
-Badly written... Young. Teenage. Girls. No, it's not high literature. Very few pure romance novels are.
-Domestic violence being positive... Not entirely sure where you got this from.
-Black people dissappearing...
really not sure where you got this from.
-Women being useless... Bella is not useless, Alice is not useless. Several other women in the series are surprisingly strong, self reliant characters.
-Marrying a 5-year old... Okay, I
said the last book read like weird fanfiction. But, no, he doesn't marry a 5-year old. It's made clear that it's not love, he just really wants her to be happy, and it's a bond that might potentially turn into love when she grows older, and then it's just the age issue again. The problem is something they talk about several times over the course of the series.
So, please don't go around carrying hate for a book you
admit to not having read. It's irrational and only says bad things about you.
(Rant over.)
And yes, of course I've read and watched "Let the right one in". It's super cute and everyone should at least see the movie. The book gets a bit gorey though, and should be read in swedish.