Ah, so it was. *actually didn't realize*
Aw, well it makes you stand out from the crowd! Honestly, I hope whoever I end up with is okay with killing the bugs. I can handle the snakes, if she can handle the bugs. Also, I think I get where you're coming from. Men are generally supposed to be tough go-getters, and not whatever I am. :/ We'll just fly our little flag here at the forum and attract the other weird folks.
Hey, I'm all for non-gender-stereotypical people.
It's not like I'm the most feminine person around. Neither are my parents for that matter (gender-typical that is). My mom and I have a theory that more androgyneous people have happier relationships because feminine girls are generally attracted to, and end up with, more masculine guys, and vice-versa, while androgyneous people end up with people more similar to themselves. Just a theory though. Anyway, being very concerned with your own masculinity is an annoying trait, it's good you aren't.