The English literary critic G.K. Chesterton had a real talent for quippy quotes, and he had this to say about Christianity:
“The Christian ideal has not been tried and found wanting. It has been found difficult; and left untried.”
I feel silly saying it this way, but: if a thing is difficult to do, there will be those people who are not going to succeed at it! And so no one here in the forum is surprised when a person aspires to an ideal with their speech, then fails with their actions. Some things are really hard to accomplish.
But I think what Chesterton is pointing out is that there are people who recognize the "difficult thing" right away, and they're honest enough with themselves to say "That ideal is not for me, why set myself up to fail?"
But when a person pretends to have achieved some state of rightness without actually being "good" (whatever that may mean for you), that is when we get angry, because it looks dishonest. That person is claiming the ideal without doing it, right? Those people are out there, to be sure. In our case, I don't know Minna well enough to call her one of those.
Does anybody here remember the movie The Matrix? A character named Morpheus says to the protagonist, a guy named Neo, the following: "There's a difference between knowing the path, and walking the path."
It's a great quote, but I bring it up to show a different idea than what was in the movie. Morpheus was teaching Neo that you can fulfill your destiny without even believing what that destiny is, or daring to hope for it. I hope so! But I quote it here because Christians must have the opposite situation: they know their ideal, but it's a struggle to follow it.
So when I meet a Christian who has a high tolerance for mistakes, I figure they have a clearer view of the whole picture. Because whatever you believe, none of us are going to make it for long unless we can be gracious to each other.