Random philosophical question: what is defined as the 'current' generation? I mean, I get it that at 70 years old you are... well, old, but what is the 'current' generation? 10? 20? 30? 40? Anything from 13 to 40? At which point should I start thinking I belong to an earlier generation?
Mmm... I'm old enough that I could have kids in college if I'd thought about it in time.
I was thinking more that I came of age in the '80s, recently enough to take advantage of second-wave feminism in the U.S. -- i.e.
opening up a lot of opportunities previously available only to men -- and the Sexual Revolution (birth control, "Our Bodies, Ourselves," first-wave gay liberation, etc.). (That's not to say I personally took advantage of a lot of that, but at least I wasn't going to be reported to the authorities or my parents if I wanted to.)
But there's been a lot more change from the '80s till now, in terms of people being a lot more flexible and comfortable about varying gender roles, choices you can make with your body or lifestyle, feeling empowered to speak up when other people are jerks... that sort of thing. (I'm not going into details 1) so as not to exceed our content standards and 2) not to pull the discussion too far off-topic.)
It seems to me that people whose ideas were formed in the last 20-or-so years are a lot more flexible about things. And not just, uh, NSFW topics. Rather, adding to the no-longer-new idea that women can do things and act in ways that used to be thought of as "men's" areas, the still somewhat new idea that men can also be and act in ways that used to be thought of as "women's" areas.
For example, my mother sometimes talks about my younger brother "babysitting" his two small children when his wife is out of town. And I say, "Mom, it's not 'babysitting' when it's your own children -- it's simply *being a parent*."
And the idea that if you like things traditionally associated with your home gender (in my case, cooking and cute fluffy things), that doesn't mean you have to take all the limiting aspects of that "traditional" gender as a package deal (being stuck as a housewife, expressing yourself only in a passive-aggressive way, etc.).
This works for the guys too -- I see plenty of members of this forum who identify as male, are into computers or explosions or great big trucks, and are perfectly comfortable talking about their kids or their fears or cooking or who looks cute in the comic, without any self-consciousness. And I think that's really cool!
All right, time for me to stop hijacking this thread. You folks just
rock on with your bad selves.
EDIT: Fimbulvarg made a good point re: off-topicness. I will move SeaAngel's and my discussion to GD, at which point Fim can delete her request if she likes.