If I had a Haven, it might be like a dream I had as a child, when I was going through a very bad time whose details are not germane to this post (plus depressing). I dreamed that I was going down a very narrow alley of brown brick like nothing in my actual hometown. I had to negotiate a tight corner formed by a shed/shack/booth/tent that was backed almost flush against the alley's mouth and then I was in a huge bazaar in a country in some other world. Everybody I saw looked like somebody from the southern coast of Mesopotamia/India and nobody spoke my language, but I wasn't afraid. I wandered among booths selling all kinds of beautiful things--scarves, bells, brass trinkets, candles, sequins, ribbons, musical instruments (I heard music), incense--and a nice lady in a sari handed me first a handful of raisins, then a juicy fig, and finally a round biscuit-white fruit. She showed me how to crack it open. The thin shell was inedible, but the thick creamy interior tasted almost exactly like plain cheesecake. I was visited with a powerful feeling that I was completely safe there, that I could go anywhere without harm, but it was time for me to wake up.
I've never been back there since, but the memory of the dream carried me through some bad days.