Wanted to add something for clarification why I have an issue with talent. Talent is something you do have or not it is pure chance. But I am proud of what I achieved because I did put some effort in it. I do try to draw pretty things since I was 3 years old. There were some interruptions but I practiced this for years, Even as a kid and kids can have a attention span below zero. I did use up loads of pencils I filled literally thousands of pages. And when someone says it is done with talent that feels like it is devaluating my work. For sure you all can not know this so sorry to everyone for being a weirdo about this.
I just caught up with this discussion, and I think you hit on something really important here. I would argue that most people, given sufficient motivation, can produce excellent art/music/whatever thing they do, but only with great effort. A lucky few have talent, whatever that is, and can (for example) pick up pens and draw apparently without effort. So for the vast majority of people, it
is insulting to say they're talented, because their "talent" is the result of many hours of practice, driven by their desire to express themselves. Thanks for pointing that out.
I am, in the words of a colleague, "a proud dilettante". He meant it as an insult - not directed at me personally, but in general at anyone who dabbles in this and that - but I've taken it as a badge of honour. I have, at various times, been serious about playing cello, competitive bicycling, black-and-white photography including developing and printing my work, sailing, digital photography including post-processing, swimming... the list goes on. I've never excelled at any of them. I have got pretty good at them all, and in some cases might be considered "a natural", in the sense that I did pretty well without putting a great deal of effort in. But there's the key - I didn't put in the effort, the 10,000 hours of practice, to become excellent. So nobody called me a talented cellist, cyclist, photographer, etc. I don't know if they ever would have, had I put in the effort, but I didn't so we'll never know!
I have the greatest respect for anyone who actually devotes the time to mastering something, and will try from now on to remember not to call them talented! But I also value my broad range of skills and experience, and don't regret having dabbled in so many things. I enjoy string quartets all the more knowing the challenges of playing a string instrument, even if I don't play any more. I appreciate a skillfully composed and retouched photograph precisely because I know I could do a half-arsed job of it and am impressed by the devotion someone had to do it well. I think both groups - the focused, who work hard to become excellent, and the dilettantes who try everything that catches their fancy - are important to keeping the world ticking along.
Sorry about the wall of text, I thought it was such a good point and it got me thinking about talent vs effort, my colleague's insult, and valuing different ways of being, so I started "thinking with my fingers".
TL;DR - good point moredhel, what looks like raw talent is usually hard effort.